De-Cluttering at Your Own Pace

Getting rid of clutter is not the same as just catching up on housework. Friends and family may not understand how difficult it can be when there are emotional issues and patterns underlying it all, and may wonder why you aren't making faster progress.

And they are just as likely to be concerned that you might be moving too fast and getting rid of too much - especially if they have clutter issues themselves).

Don't let anyone else's expectations or standards distract you from dealing with your clutter in whatever way works for you. It's okay to go slowly if you need to, but it's also okay to shovel stuff out by the dumpster-load if that's what you are motivated to do.

The "right" way is the way that works best for you,

"I am learning not to ignore what I need to do for myself, and to gently take clutter-clearing a little step at a time, even when it's uncomfortable."
~ Clutter-Free Forever! support group member